Finding hope, endurance, and God’s presence when life feels overwhelming
My heart has been heavy lately as a dear friend recently received a cancer diagnosis. Praying for her has reminded me of something I have learned slowly over time. Dealing with life-altering news does not begin the moment the words are spoken. That moment is a continuation of a journey that started years earlier, shaped by daily choices, quiet obedience, and a steady walk with the Lord.
We live in a broken world, and because of that, hard things come whether we feel prepared or not. Still, when difficulty arrives, we are not starting from scratch. We respond out of what has already been formed in us.
Long Before the News Arrives
I have learned that faith is something we practice long before we need it most. When circumstances are calm, we learn to trust God in small ways. Over time, those choices shape how we respond when life suddenly feels fragile.
We all face the same fork in the road when hardship comes. We can ask, “Why me?” or we can quietly ask, “God, what are You doing in me and through me here?” That question does not deny the pain. It simply opens the door for God to meet us in it.
Training for More Than a Race
My friend is a runner, and she understands this better than most. She has completed five- and ten-kilometer races, half marathons, full marathons, and a grueling mud run. None of those races happened without preparation. She trained her body, but she also trained her mind.
It takes more than physical strength to lace up your shoes and run ten miles on a cold, sleeting day. You run because you have practiced for it, even when it is uncomfortable. You know the discipline is preparing you for something more.
Faith works the same way. Persevering through difficult weeks, months, or even years requires practice. Trusting God on ordinary days prepares us to lean on Him when the road turns hard.
Faith practiced over time steadies us when the waters rise higher than we expected.
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When the Water Feels Too Deep
This truth is captured beautifully in The Pilgrim’s Progress by John Bunyan. Christian’s journey is filled with one trial after another, yet he is not alone. Hopeful walks beside him. Near the end of the journey, they must cross a river before reaching the Celestial City, and Christian becomes overwhelmed with fear. As he begins to sink, he cries out, “I sink in deep waters; the billows go over my head.”
Hopeful’s response is steady and calm: “Be of good cheer, my good brother; I feel the bottom, and it is good.”
I know this scene points to the passage from this life to the next, and I share the same truth Bunyan was conveying. I am not afraid of where I am going, but I admit I can feel anxious about the process of getting there. What comforts me is the reminder that God never leaves us alone in the water.
“When you pass through the waters, I will be with you… When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned.” Isaiah 43:2 (NIV)
Walking With Hope, Not Alone
I am not suggesting that my friend’s diagnosis means she is at the end of her journey. What I am saying is simpler and, I believe, more important. God is present with us in the middle of our struggles. He is the companion we need when the path feels uncertain and the water feels deeper than expected.
I want to be that kind of friend as well. One who walks alongside, offering hope and quiet courage. One who reminds another that the ground beneath us, even when unseen, is still firm because God is holding us.
Faith does not remove the hardship, but it steadies us within it. And when we walk together, leaning on the One who never lets go, we find the strength to take the next step.
A Song for Reflection
Music has always reached me in ways words sometimes cannot. When grief settles deep, even the kindest offers of encouragement from well-meaning individuals can bounce right off, not because they are wrong, but because my heart simply cannot take them in yet. Music slips past that resistance. Long before I can articulate what I am feeling, a song often finds it for me and carries it to God when I do not have the strength to do so myself.
If you would like a quiet song to sit with after reading this devotional, “It Is Well (With My Soul)” by Kristene DiMarco or “Yet Not I But Through Christ in Me” by CityAlight pairs beautifully with this reflection. Both gently echo the assurance that God is present, even in deep waters.
Friend, if you are struggling today, please reach out to me. I would be honored to pray for you. If leaving a comment below is too public, you can always find me through my contact form.
Thank you for writing this! I hope others are encouraged by it as much as I am. You are a precious friend and prayer warrior!
You are so precious to me.
I am sorry to read of your friend’s diagnosis and will be praying for her. Being up-to-date in our relationship with Christ really does make a difference when life throws us curveballs. Jesus cares all about our troubles.
That he does!
Thank you again Heidi for your timely message.
Praying for your friend battling cancer adding her to my two sister-in-laws who are also dealing with cancer.
Praise the Lord he never leaves us, he is always with us. Such a tremendous comforter is our Holy Spirit.
God bless you.
Thank you, Heidi. Goodness, so much heartache in our world!
Praying for your friend.
Thank you, Kathy!